I just had surgery on my tear duct a few days ago, and I have a new perspective on some of the medical issues my wife deals with on a daily basis. I’m currently taking strong antibiotics, Methylprednisolone, and Hydrocodone for the pain. I’ve had to sleep sitting up for the last few days, so there hasn’t been a lot of sleeping. My head is so fuzzy from all the medicine. It makes it difficult to function.
This is nothing in comparison to the amount of medicine my wife takes each day. I’m amazed she is able to get anything done at all.
I also have very little memory of the procedure at all, which is ironic because last week I was reading this post by Marilyn about memory loss during anethesia.
I’d like to start by thanking everyone for their support in getting this site moving in the right direction. I’ve learned so much from from your comments and from the research I’ve done for the articles here. I was feeling pretty discouraged about the site and the lack of readers and comments, but I think we are now going to be able to make this site a valuable resource for lupies and their friends and families.
I’ve finished the second chapter of Living With Lupus: All the Knowledge You Need to Help Yourself by Sheldon Paul Blau, M.D. with Dodi Schultz. Remember, I’m reading the first edition, so if you have the second edition, it may be slightly different. I also found that a good deal of the book is available in a preview at Google Books.
I thought it might be useful to start a series of book chats that deal with some of the lupus literature that’s out there. It will also make me actually read these books, instead of just searching through the index for whatever it is that I have a question about. If you have a copy of the book, follow along with me as I read and then we’ll have a dialog in the comment section. If you don’t have a copy, and your local library doesn’t have a copy, you can get one through the Amazon link, or just read what I have to say about it. It will be good for me to really go through these books in depth. I will try and pull some online references that are appropriate to each chapter.
I’ve read the first chapter of Living With Lupus: All the Knowledge You Need to Help Yourself by Sheldon Paul Blau, M.D. with Dodi Schultz. The last time I looked at the Amazon link it had a used copy for a penny. I’m reading the first edition, so if you have the second edition, you can let everyone know if there’s anything new.
Chapter One of the book is called In Their Own Words: How It Began. In this first chapter, Dr. Blau introduces seven women and gives a brief explanation of how they first discovered that they had lupus. Each of the women have a very different initial experience, but it is usually as Dr. Blau says,
The first experience with lupus is often recognized only in retrospect – seen at the time as something else or, often, simply an enigma. Only when lupus is finally suspected and diagnosed may it be clear that events that took place months or even years earlier were actually – or, at least, possibly – signs and symptoms of lupus, or that seemingly unrelated incidents may actually have been connected.
I know that my wife has recently been writing about her childhood and her initial lupus diagnosis, and she now believes that many of her early medical incidents were lupus related.
The stories of the seven women continue to develop throughout the book. Here are their names and initial symptoms: