Retreat and Regroup

There are times when I just can’t do everything. My wife is still having some flu symptoms and is having a hard time. I had to take a day off of work at a very bad time for me. This is really the busiest time of the year for me, and I don’t mean this time in general, I mean last week and this coming week specifically is the most stressful and busiest time of the year for me.

We will get through it and everything will be fine; however, I have put some posts on hold until I can have some time to sit down and write again.

Establish a Support System

Having a good support system is essential for any family dealing with chronic illness, and I wish I could say that we had one. Today is another one of those days when I have to take a day off of work to get my wife into the doctor. She is going into her fourth week of dealing with pneumonia-like symptoms, and in my opinion, the doctor’s treatment has been less than adequate. Last night, I was actually afraid that she had died, just because I realized I hadn’t heard her cough for a while. I am seriously so stressed out right now, I could… well, nothing, because if I break down the whole house breaks down, so I keep going. Continue reading

Lupus Stress on Patient and Family

I recently found an excellent article online about the stress that lupus causes for not only the lupus patient, but their support system as well. Lupus Patients in Relation to Family and Friends, written by Steven J. Schostal, M.D., begins with an overview of seven types of psychological stress that are common for someone with an acute and chronic illness like lupus. Continue reading